Get the
Girl.
The course for gay girls who wanna know if she's 'just being nice' or is into you.
This you, babe?
Admiring her from afar, hoping she’ll pick up on your obvious and strategic signal of doing absolutely nothing isn't working for you...
- You're tired of second-guessing yourself + being scared to approach women you're hot for.
- You have ZERO f*cking clue how to tell if she's just "being nice" or is into you.
- You're over dating app conversations that drag on for weeks and go nowhere.
- You're convinced hot, available queer women are really, really hard to find.
- All your dates feel like friend hands, 'cause you don't know how to build sexual tension with a woman
Now picture this:
- Falling asleep next to a beautiful woman you love, knowing she gets you and adores you in all your weirdness.
- Staying up late together talking, laughing, binge-watching your fave Hulu shows and doing other things..😏
- Hearing your phone ping and knowing it's a text from her
- Having the kind of passionate connection with a woman that makes your whole body feel alive
- Probs also a dwindling bank balance tbh, 'cause you'll wanna buy your queen everything and do all the cute lil thangs for her
Introducing:
Get theGirl.
HOW TF do I get a girlfriend??!!!! 😩
If you’re a gay girlie who’s ever asked yourself this question, Get The Girl is for YOU.
Never again wonder if she’s just being nice or is Gay-4-U. Stop feeling terrified about making the first move, and going home internally screaming ‘WHY DIDN’T I JUST KISS HER???!!’.
Get The Girl will show you how. Like, EXACTLY how.
Created in response to the frustrating lack of resources on queer sex + dating, Get the Girl is a self-paced video course designed to help you have the hot queer love you deserve.
Drawing from over a decade of powerful, proven strategies, it’ll teach you everything you’ve ever wanted to know about queer signalling, gay flirting, creating irresistible sapphic sexual tension.
What's inside..
3 modules of video lessons
Covering everything from decoding queer signalling to gay girl flirting and creating sexual tension
A bespoke workbook
With tried-n-tested hot Gay Girl texting templates that'll make it crystal clear you wanna be more than friends + step-by-step tutorials
Real demonstrations
Watch video demonstrations of an ACTUAL lesbian couple that walk you through exactly how to create sky-high sexual tension and make a move
Graduates
Meet some of the newly loved-up babes who’ve taken Get The Girl..
“Get the Girl was responsible for ditching my fear of dating apps, enabling me to meet my new girlfriend.
And once we met in person, I was absolutely so much more confident than I would have been otherwise. I wouldn’t be where I am today, happily coupled, without your course.”
“I wasn’t having much success dating before the course.. It really boosted my self confidence.
The practical advice and guidance really made me feel a lot more confident in taking more physical steps with women.”
“Coming out late in life brought a deep sense of peace. I was finally able to truly be myself. But it was also overwhelming.. GTG became the compass I so deeply needed
It gave me the sense of direction that helped me to step into my authentic life with confidence and excitement. Most importantly, it showed me I’m not alone on this journey.”
Hi, I'm Nadia.
Something strange happened on one of my first dates with another woman… No one made a move.
We were both subconsciously sticking to the outdated idea women should be passive in dating.
When I realised I didn’t need to keep prescribing to this “straight” way of thinking, and that I could take the lead, EVERYthing changed. (In the best way 😈)
As a queer sex and dating coach with over a decade of experience, I’ve seen countless women—seasoned lesbians and newly out sapphics alike—struggle to take initiative. Consequently, they’re stuck in a pattern of dating app matches that go nowhere, dates that feel more like hangouts, and confusion when it comes to intimacy.
After many months of seeing my queer dating advice videos repeatedly go viral, it was clear to me women were hungry for this information (and sadly I’m limited with how much social media will let me share).
That’s how Get the Girl was born. Combining years of research and real-life experience, it’s my answer to all the questions queer women desperately need answered.
And more importantly, it WORKS. I’m now experiencing the kind of passionate, deeply connected love I previously thought only existed in movies—and I want that for you, too.
Where you might've seen me...
The Modules
💘 Module 1: Get hot gay girl dates
(3 video lessons)
✔ Ditch the awkward “How's your day been?” chats and spark real chemistry.
✔ Stop getting stuck in endless app convos and turn matches into real human dates.
✔ Steal my flirty, no-cringe text templates designed to get her excited to meet in person.
💘 Module 2: Make her blush
(4 video lessons)
✔ Learn how to actually shoot your shot IRL — no liquid courage required.
✔ Become so good at flirting, she can't stop blushing.
✔ Read her vibe like a pro — know the exact signs that show she's Gay-4-U.
✔ Ditch the over-thinking and confidently make the first move.
💘 Module 3: Turn up the heat
(4 video lessons)
✔ Build so much sexual tension, she’s already texting her group chat about you.
✔ Stop second-guessing every word and become that girl who can sext and talk dirty like it’s her first language.
✔ Finally feel chill (and hot) about nudes. Know exactly when to send, what to send, and how to keep it playful + confident.
FAQs
What if I'm not newly out or single? Will it still apply to me?
Yes! Whether you’re just starting to date women or have been out for years and are married to a woman, Get The Girl is perfect for anyone who wants to level up in flirting, building chemistry, and creating red hot sexual tension with another woman.
When will I get my Get the Girl workbook?
Immediately! You can download it inside the Welcome section of the course, which is hosted by Teachable.
Can I buy the Get the Girl workbook on its own if I don't do the course?
No, the Get the Girl workbook is exclusive to course students.
Is it worth it?
A single coaching session with me is $349USD. The Get the Girl course, which is just $89, is like having your own personalized session with me, and includes a 30-page workbook worth $49USD, and lifetime access to a vault of video tutorials covering topics like gay girl flirting, making the first move, and how to decode queer signalling. This takes the combined value to over $400USD, so yes—it's worth it! 😉
What do I do if I don't receive my confirmation email or have trouble accessing the course?
Contact nadia@nadiabokody.com.
What if I have other questions?
Contact nadia@nadiabokody.com.