1 weekend. Endless chances to meet her.
Lesbian Love Lab 2026 has now concluded. Join the waitlist for details of the next event as they become available.
Lesbian dating isn't for the weak.
How many hours have you spent on dating apps, talking to:
✘ Bots + scammers
✘ Couples looking for a 'third'
✘ Women who match then ghost
And how much time have you wasted crushing on straight or unavailable women who give you false hope?
..What if there was a better, faster way?
(there is)
Introducing...
Lesbian Love Lab
Lesbian Love Lab™ is an invite-only weekend experience designed to help single sapphics meet, build queer flirting + sex skills and connect in a space created specifically for them.
No decoding who's gay.
No wondering if they're single.
No anxiety about making the first move.
Just a room full of single sapphics where flirting isn’t only welcome — it’s expected.
Lesbian Love Lab™ is intentionally capped to preserve the energy, intimacy, and chemistry of the room.
As the leading queer sex + dating authority and sapphic coach, I've helped over 4,000 women navigate queer flirting, dating and sex through my viral programs Rock Her World and Get The Girl.
Drawing on a decade of experience in the field, this immersive weekend brings the most powerful tools from my work into a live environment where connection happens naturally, not awkwardly.
And more importantly, where no one goes home writing the 'I wish I kissed you' text!
Nadia x
What happens inside
Lesbian Love Lab
Over two days, Love Lab members will be guided through a series of workshops designed to help hone their gay girl flirting skills, supercharge queer sex confidence + connect with potential partners. Here's how...
1. Step into a room where the odds are in your favor
Join a curated group of single sapphics — all there to meet, connect, and flirt.
Women who know what they want.
And definitely didn’t fly out just to sit in the corner nursing a drink.
No guessing who’s gay.
No wondering if anyone's single.
And zero awkward small talk.
Just a room full of confident, interesting, hot queer women open to connection, chemistry, and more...
The kind of room where eye contact lingers, flirting feels easy, and sparks aren’t rare — they’re everywhere.
2. Learn how to be dangerously good at flirting
Through live, interactive workshops, LLL™ members learn how to confidently (and non-creepily) approach a woman, flirt, build sexual tension and make a move.
No nerves or overthinking.
No freezing up in the moment.
Just knowing what to do — and actually doing it.
3. Meet women who are exactly your type
Structured introductions throughout the weekend make it effortless to connect with other single queer women.
And it all builds to a fun, sexy speed dating style night, designed for maximum chemistry, flirting, and sparks.
A sneak peek inside
Love Lab weekend
DAY 1
Saturday's where the magic starts. We break the ice, shake off the nerves, dive into queer flirting skills and start connecting.
Morning session
(9:00 AM — 12:30 PM)
Arrival + Welcome: Ease into the weekend with a relaxed gathering designed to help you settle in and start feeling at home.
Sapphic Dating 101: A live session where you'll learn how to avoid the common sapphic dating mistakes + how to initiate.
Lunch break
(12:30 PM — 2:00 PM)
Afternoon session
(2:00 PM — 5:00 PM)
Flirt School: An interactive experience co-hosted with a special queer guest speaker where you'll learn how to identify the difference between 'friendly 'and flirting.
Love Lab After Dark
(7:30 PM – 11:30 PM)
A fun, flirty night of good food, great drinks + conversation, and the chance to see where chemistry leads.
DAY 2
Sunday's where connections deepen and possibilities start to take shape. We slow things down, spend more time with the women who caught our attention, and give new connections the space to grow.
Morning session
(9:00 AM — 12:30 PM)
Morning After Vibes: Start the day off with a coffee in hand and stories from the night before, reconnecting with women you're excited to see again.
Attraction Lab: A live, expert-led workshop on building chemistry, maintaining momentum and confidently making a move.
Lunch break
(12:30 PM — 2:00 PM)
Afternoon session
(2:00 PM — 5:00 PM)
Rock Her World: A fun, judgment-free workshop covering the essentials of sapphic sex, including oral and fingering. Delivered with humor, real talk, and a few activities designed to help you feel confident in the bedroom. Because great sex shouldn’t feel intimidating… it should feel doable. The Strap-On Shop: A private visit to a queer-inclusive sex shop with hands-on recommendations, and an exclusive group discount on sapphic toys. A chance to ask questions, and leave feeling confident about what works for your body and preferences.
NB: Schedule subject to change.
Qualifying for
Lesbian Love Lab
Attendance at Lesbian Love Lab™ is intentionally limited.
We review every application to ensure:
A respectful and emotionally safe environment
A room full of women who are genuinely open to connection
A balanced and compatible group dynamic
A high-quality experience for everyone in the room
Choose your experience
One life-changing weekend. Three ways to show up.
General Admission
- Two full days of workshops + coaching
- Structured speed dating sessions
- A curated group of vetted attendees
- A safe, supportive environment
- Love Lab After Dark (food + drinks included)
$997
All prices are in USD. Payment plans available.
Priority Access
- Everything in General Admission
- Daily lunch provided (all dietary needs welcome)
- Member Preview Access — get early access to attendee profiles
- Intimate pre-event VIP Drinks with Nadia + team (Friday night)
$1497
All prices are in USD. Payment plans available.
VIP pass
- Everything in Priority Access
- 3 nights accomodation included
- An exclusive Love Lab™ goodie bag
- Full event recordings
- Spark Card Matchmaking — Discover who liked you
- Gay Girl VIP Club annual membership
$2000
All prices are in USD. Payment plans available.
Spend another year wondering..
..or one weekend changing
everything
You're not struggling because you're undateable. You're struggling because you've been trying to do this alone.
with Lesbian love lab
- Walk into a room where every woman is queer, single, sexy + genuinely open to connection
- Make real, in-person connections with not just one of two women you're attracted to — but dozens
- Learn exactly how to gay girl flirt, create chemistry, and read attraction — without overthinking
- Feel confident approaching women you know are interested in you instead of waiting to be chosen
- Experience the thrill of real-life sparks — not endless messaging that leads to nowhere
if nothing changes
- Another year of swiping, overthinking, and starting conversations that fizzle out
- Second-guessing every text, every look, every interaction
- Feeling invisible in queer spaces because you don't know how to break the ice
- Telling yourself “I'll put myself out there someday” while more of your life passes you
- Continuing to feel alone + like all the hot queer women are taken, or live really far away
FAQs
What venue will Love Lab be hosted at?
Lesbian Love Lab 2026, hosted in Toronto, has now concluded. The location for Lesbian Love Lab 2027 is yet to be announced. Join the waitlist to stay up to date as details become available.
When is it?
Lesbian Love Lab 2026, hosted in Toronto, has now concluded. The location for Lesbian Love Lab 2027 is yet to be announced. Join the waitlist to stay up to date as details become available.
When will I find out if I'm accepted?
Successful applicants are personally contacted via email.
What does Member Preview Access involve?
Every Lesbian Love Lab™ member submits a profile including their photo and dating preferences ahead of the retreat. Members with Preview Access get access to a private look at these profiles a week before the weekend begins to get a sense of who’s attending, what they’re looking for, and who they might be excited to meet — so they can arrive feeling prepared, confident, and already looking forward to a few familiar faces.
What's involved in the Spark Card Matchmaking?
During the Spark Sessions, Love Lab™ members complete a Spark Card which asks them to privately note the women they felt a genuine spark with. After each round, our team reviews the cards to identify mutual matches, and VIP Pass holders are provided access to their own personal matches. In other words, if you both ticked each other’s name… you won’t miss the opportunity to reconnect. It's basically like seeing who swiped right on you on an app, but in real-life!
Are there payment plans?
Yes — payment plans are available on all pricing tiers. Payments will begin in June and must be completed in full before the event begins on July 25. You can split your payment into four installments between then. (Note: Because of the additional admin and flexibility involved, the total cost on a payment plan will be slightly higher than paying in full.) If you're able to pay in full, we recommend doing so — it secures your place immediately and gives you the lowest price.
Is accomodation included?
Accommodation is included for VIP passholders. If you're accepted, you can opt for a VIP pass (please note these are limited). If you're not a VIP passholder, accomodation isn't included, so you’re free to choose a hotel that suits your budget and preferences. We’ll provide recommended nearby options after acceptance to make planning your stay simple.
What if I have a different question?
Contact nadia@nadiabokody.com.